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November 16 , 2003

Perhaps the few who actually take time to read my newsletters “tomes” have grown tired of my verbose, thematic ramblings. Therefore, I have decided on a different frame with which to describe my work here this month. Possibly because I have not thought of a theme under which to categorize my October experiences, or possibly because it just seems like a good idea, in this newsletter I simply want to narrate a typical week of my life here. However, because several unusual, atypical events occurred as well, I will include those anomalies that make every week atypical.

Monday
Although the start of another work week for most people here as well as at home, Monday signals the beginning of the calmer part of my week. Usually as soon as I wake up, I head to the UEC. My day is spent volunteering at the library, meeting with students who have academic questions, and preparing my C.S. Lewis discussion for the evening. At four o’clock, not sharp, the “manly men” from our newly formed church ensemble, “A Joyful Noise,” gather for a section meeting that usually consists of singing songs from O Brother Where Are Thou, rather than our assigned practice. Following these joyful noises, I have just enough time to walk to the metro and buy some fruit, cookies, or other snack to serve to my C.S. Lewis book discussion at 7, as well as grab myself a nutritious hot dog. At 7, or a little after, about fifteen of us gather and discuss five or six chapters of The Screwtape Letters for a little over an hour and a half. Usually, after this class, I hang around pestering the library workers for awhile and then return home to do my Russian homework for class in the morning (yes, I still wait until the night before, even as a “mature” college graduate). One splendid night, several of us decided to go down to “Art Club 44” which has a free jazz band on Monday nights. The music was awesome, and we had a wonderful time eating french fries, laughing, and relaxing for a couple hours and listening.

Tuesday
Another one of my “calmer” days, Tuesday is the day I always say I am going to get everything I need to do finished. Of course, it rarely happens. First thing in the morning, I meet with my new Russian tutor for an hour. My former tutor, Zhanna, became ill recently and is no longer able to tutor me, so I had to seek out another who is a good teacher, although not quite the “character” that Zhanna is. Again my day is filled with UEC volunteer work, meeting with students, grading papers, and planning my classes later in the week. From 6:30 until 9:30 on Tuesday evening I meet with several adults in two separate groups for English lessons. Participants in last summer’s LST mission, which entailed Americans coming over to teach English using the book of Luke, these students are all at extremely different levels of study. In one group, we primarily converse about subjects ranging from religion to cable companies in Kyiv. The later group we use an English grammar book to guide our study. One of my favorite nights of the month, however, occurred on a Tuesday night. My birthday present to Dema, a church member and part of our ensemble was a ticket to the massive “futbol” game in Kyiv. The Kyiv Dynamo took on those arrogant English-speaking Britons of Arsenal in a down-to-the-wire, nail-biting League of Champions match. Joining the other 80,000 fans in the “wave” and the “ole” cheer, and refraining from speaking English to ensure that I did not get beaten for association with the enemy, I learned how exciting what I formerly knew as soccer could be. Tuesday evening, like most other evenings, I usually spend answering emails, reading, or preparing classes.

Wednesday
The main event in my day on Wednesday is my first composition class of the week at the university. Depending how much I have prepared in advance, sometimes I work at the UEC a little before my class. Many times, though, I am grading papers, typing out quizzes with which to torture my students, or copying a worksheet on some grammar topic like articles. Teaching my university class is always one of the highlights of my week, although it also has added quite a bit more work and preparation to my “work week.” After what I’m sure is an inspiring, world-altering lecture, tired from these noble exertions, I return home to enjoy my “night off” for the week. Sometimes I spend it emailing or reading, but most often we go to the center and watch a movie, or maybe two.

Thursday
Again waking up early for my Russian lesson first thing in the morning, and sometimes ashamed to say that I neglected my homework assignments from Tuesday, I begin the hectic part of my schedule. Most of my day, as usual, is spent at the library, but usually it is focused on my two different classes on Friday. Thursday night is our weekly “cell group” meeting at our apartment, and it monopolizes most of the late afternoon and evening hours. Around four o’clock in the afternoon, I return home to clean for our guests (I am always amazed at how dirty I manage to make our apartment in a week’s time). Shopping for the meal usually commences at 5pm followed by cooking and preparation from 5:45-7. Eating at 7, our group shares its blessings, or “un-blessings,” from the past week in between bites of mashed potatoes, salad, or noodles. We then worship for about thirty minutes before a discussion of a particular bible passage. Ending with a group prayer around 9:30, many members depart to study for an exam or write a paper, while others stick around for an hour or so washing dishes, drinking tea, continuing the night’s discussion, or just goofing off. Although I was shocked when I first arrived and heard that these “cell groups” meet for almost four hours at a time, and much more if preparation and cleaning is included, I have discovered how refreshing and re-centering these meetings can be. For three hours or so, we stop thinking about all the things we have to do and gather with friends to share about, worship, and understand God together. Definitely the most atypical Thursday night I have had is heavily featured in this month’s photo gallery. Travelling to the UEC after the cell ended, I spent the entire night, with four of the workers, cleaning every inch of the building to prepare for the arrival of its owner and the planned second anniversary celebration the following day. A night that involved sitting in dirt, scraping it with fingernails, nearly falling many, many times from high places, dancing at 5am and eating pizza at 6am will definitely last a long time in my memory.

Friday
The arrival of Friday signals the peak activity of my week. I usually awake and immediately begin preparing for my two classes this day. This month Chris and Lena also started a “Soup Group,” for Friday lunch where students who have attended “Student Night” or one of the cell groups and have questions about one of Chris’s talks or Christianity in general meet to ask questions and enjoy wholesome soup that Chris has concocted from whatever ingredients he decided needed to go into the pot. Usually attending this group (save for the Friday I was asleep after the cleaning marathon), I leave straight from this warming meal to teach Composition at ICU. After once again rescuing the young minds from the deep, despairing pit of ignorance, I try to “grab” something to eat, which is much more difficult in Kyiv than in Nashville I have discovered, and head to the Nivky Church apartment for my next class. Buying some apples, grapes, cookies or all three from one of the street merchants on the way, I get there a little early to set up and run through my lecture quickly. From 7:15 to about 9 I lecture and answer questions concerning the relationship of science and religion, especially as it concerns the philosophy of science and the creation of the universe and life itself. Usually attended by about 17 people, some church members and some non-christians, we then stick around the church for awhile and play ping pong (my skills are improving drastically), watch a movie, or we even painted watercolors one week. The Friday after the infamous cleaning session left me clinging to my last threads of sanity, however. Sleeping a few hours during the night, then arising to grade papers and prepare my lecture, and then sleeping a couple more hours, I lectured on the Heart of Darkness and the use of articles. Having eaten nothing all day, I nearly fainted after class. Straightaway, though, I had to head downstairs at the university for a practice session in front of the university choir class with the ensemble. Growing increasingly nervous as well as hungry and faint, we rushed over to the center (I grabbed a bottle of drinkable yogurt and a banana along the way) barely in time for our inaugural performance. Stomachs churning for various reasons, we performed for nearly 100 people and shared with them our “joyful noise.” Soon after we headed over to our apartment for a bunch of pizza and coke, and then promptly fell asleep for many an hour.

Saturday
The first part of the month my Saturdays offered not a single free moment, but now they are a bit more relaxed. Our weekly Frisbee game has fizzled out with the arrival of rain, snow, and temperatures below freezing, and I usually enjoy the chance to sleep a little. At 2, we have our weekly ensemble practice at the church for two hours, and then transition into the main event of Saturday – Student Night. Several members of the ensemble are also on the planning committee for Student Night, and, although we often get a few games of ping-pong in first, we often assist them in shopping for and preparing the meal for fifty. Student Night begins with Chris bantering with students and then giving a short talk about the fundamentals of Christianity. Next, the swarms of hungry students quickly consume whatever has been prepared, and then the night’s entertainment ensues. Usually a movie is shown, but I personally enjoy the game nights better. Recently the VCR at the church broke, and we played Pictionary and a game called Signs, which is one of my new favorites, for almost three hours. Saturday night has also held several abnormalities in my schedule. One night several of us departed Student Night and trekked in the freezing cold to a somewhat “nearby” ice-skating rink for an hour of cold excitement and exertion. Olya numbered her falls at eight, so I felt good with only four. The following Saturday night, another of my favorite nights of the month, Oleg and I went to the theater to a comedy show called “Snow Show.” Consisting of clowns, slapstick comedy, enormous inflatable balls, and several musical spoofs, I spent two hours rolling in my seat. Finally, this past Saturday night, a group of us went over to Chris’ apartment to celebrate his birthday, and enjoyed a competitive, never-ending game of phase ten along with pumpkin bread and smoothies.

Sunday
Probably the most varied day of my week, Sunday has only one really consistent thing – church. Scheduled at 5pm, which is a welcome change from the 8am American services for my night owl personality, I have embarked on various tasks and adventures before and after church. Typically, Sunday morning consists of sleeping, emailing or reading until church, and then going to the downtown “food court” called “Globus” for dinner after church with my roommate Oleg and Chris and Lena. I have also used the morning to explore parts of Kyiv I do not get a chance to see at other times such as Peregova or the bazaar, where I purchased my new Ukrainian coat and hat visible in the pictures. By far the most exciting day of my month, however, occurred on one extremely atypical day. Two members of our cell group, Valya and Oksana, decided this past month that they wanted to be baptized. Valya asked me to perform her baptism and Oksana asked one of our cell leaders (and my roommate) Oleg. A half hour before church we gathered, people from both services of the church, friends of Oksana and Valya, Christians, and non-Christians alike and watched these two girls lose their life to receive it again. Myself no more than an eddy of swirling emotion and anxiety, I had to repeat the Ukrainian words I had learned for the baptism over and over again in my head in order to maintain any air of normalcy or even functionability. As the ceremony began, though, and I listened to Oksana, with tears in her eyes, tell the audience that she really owned only one thing, her life, and she wanted to give this to God – her only and total offering, I was overcome with the Spirit of God in that place. As Valya told about her christening as a young child and how she wanted to make a conscious decision to follow God, to have it be a personal and conscious decision, all I could do was smile. Extremely humbled to be asked to perform the baptism and unsure about my ability to do so well, I just stood up and acted, in the same way I had to at times playing football. There is no time to think, to try to sort out emotions or anxieties, the situation is now and it is time to do what you are expected to do. During the church service, I must admit that my mind wandered as I attempted to sort out all of my thoughts and feelings about the day. Above all, a sense of meaning, of happiness, and of true rejoicing, especially at the sight of those two girls glowing faces, consumed me. It was definitely an atypical, and unforgettable day in my month.

I hope this regulated, structured and somewhat information-driven account of a week in my life has offered some kind of insight into my life here in Kyiv. Although I have had times of questioning this month, times of wondering if I was accomplishing anything, and times when I longed for home, life here continues to bless me in untold ways. Every day, routine or abnormal, teaches me something new.



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